That is what people say....along with "Just have more sex" and "Just be happy that you have one child" or "I can help you out in that department, I have 4 kids!" and many other things that they don't bother to think about before saying.
Relaxing about TTC will not help me. Trust me, I have tried. I have taken breaks when TTC, nothing. Then you have the people that will tell you stories about a friend that was TTC, well they went on to adopt and got pregnant! Really?!?!? So all I have to do is some massive amounts of paperwork, spend thousands of dollars, and then possibly have the mother decide that she wants to keep HER baby? Hummm...Nope.
There aren't many people in my life that have ever experienced infertility. I would never wish this on my worst enemy.